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Originally published: May 22, 2019 | Last updated: October 6, 2024<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Coping with pet loss requires acknowledging your pet as a true friend and companion, not \u201cjust an animal.\u201d Effective coping strategies include allowing yourself to grieve fully, talking about your pet, maintaining routines, creating a memorial, seeking support from those who understand, and being patient with the healing process.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section>\n\n\n\n
When it comes to personal loss, there\u2019s no such thing as \u201cinsignificant\u201d grief \u2013 the pain of losing a pet<\/a> can be just as intense as losing a friend or family member. After all, our pets become part of the family, and that\u2019s what makes them so endearing. When a pet dies, you don\u2019t just lose an animal. You lose a friend and the comforting presence of a loving companion. Here are a few tips that can make it just a little easier to cope with the loss of a pet:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Allow yourself time to grieve<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Some people may believe that a pet\u2019s death doesn\u2019t warrant
\nthe full range of emotions one normally feels after the death of someone close.
\nBut it\u2019s important to remember that the pain you\u2019re feeling is an expression of
\nthe love you have for your pet, and the oppressive realization that death has
\ncreated a void in your life. Slow things down, and give yourself time to work
\nthrough the grief<\/a>. Take time off from work<\/a>, if necessary, and reach out to someone who understands how
\nmuch you cared for your pet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Address your physical needs<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Don\u2019t be surprised if you experience a loss of appetite<\/a>, have trouble sleeping, or feel unmotivated. Those are
\nnatural reactions to the grieving process. Make sure you get the nutrients you
\nneed to stay healthy, and don\u2019t underestimate the importance of sleep. If
\nyou\u2019re tossing and turning, try getting to bed at the same time each night, and
\nstick with that routine so your body is re-accustomed to a healthy sleep
\npattern. If it helps, do some light reading or meditate before going to bed \u2013
\nit can help you achieve a sense of peace and inner stillness. Take part in
\nactivities you enjoy; give your mind and body a break from the pain you\u2019re
\nfeeling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Closure \u2013 honor your pet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Consider holding a family internment ceremony<\/a> at home during which everyone verbalizes their feelings. If you have children, encourage them to tell your pet how much he meant to them. It can be a cathartic experience, a healthy way to engage in emotional sharing, and an outlet for someone who has trouble expressing deeply-felt emotions. If you or a family member is having a difficult time coping with the grief, look into an online bereavement program<\/a> that can help you heal or other excellent online bereavement resources<\/a>. Remember, the sorrow that you are feeling is perfectly valid and needs to be expressed. Don\u2019t be afraid to reach out for help. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Practice a calming activity<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
If there\u2019s an activity or daily routine you find reassuring,
\ndon\u2019t neglect it. Anything that brings peace and spiritual reassurance at a
\ntime of profound loss should be embraced. It could be anything, from reading a
\nfavorite passage from the Bible to watching a TV program or movie you find
\nemotionally uplifting. Exercise<\/a> also has therapeutic value when you\u2019re hurting. It
\nactivates endorphins, chemicals in the brain that produce a natural euphoric
\nfeeling. Finding a source of inner strength can help contextualize your loss,
\nwhich is an important part of the healing process. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Getting a new pet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Think twice if your response to a pet\u2019s death is to get a
\nnew one right away. That may not be advisable, because bringing a new pet<\/a> home before you\u2019ve worked through the grieving process can
\nmake the transition difficult. Consider waiting until you have the energy and
\nmotivation to become a pet parent once again. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Grief is one of the strongest of all emotions
\nand it needs an outlet, so don\u2019t dismiss the need to grieve when a much-loved
\npet dies. Pets often have a powerfully-emotional hold on us, so don\u2019t feel odd
\nor uncomfortable about grieving over your loss or about asking for help with
\nyour grief. <\/p>\n\n\n\n